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How to Overcome Social Anxiety: Tips and Strategies



Social anxiety is a mental health condition that makes you feel anxious and uncomfortable in social situations. It's normal to feel nervous when meeting someone new, but if your anxiety gets so severe that it interferes with your daily life, such as having trouble holding conversations or avoiding social gatherings altogether, then it's time to seek professional help. There are many factors that can contribute to developing social anxiety disorder (SAD), including genetics and childhood experiences, but there are also many strategies you can use to reduce your symptoms naturally at home!


Educating yourself about social anxiety.

The next step to overcoming social anxiety is educating yourself about it. By becoming more familiar with this condition, you can begin to develop a more realistic view of your own situation and how to cope with it. It’s important to realize that social anxiety disorder is not your fault, but rather a biological brain abnormality that causes you to overthink and react negatively in certain situations.

There are many support groups available for people with social anxiety, including the Anxiety Disorders Association of America (ADAA), which offers information on the latest research findings as well as tips for managing symptoms effectively.


Practicing mindfulness and staying in the moment.

Practicing mindfulness and staying in the moment can help you to manage your social anxiety.

Mindfulness is a state of active, open attention on the present. When you're mindful, you observe your thoughts and feelings from a distance, without judging them good or bad. Instead of letting your life pass you by, mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to experience. You focus on what's happening right now — instead of rehashing the past or worrying about the future.

One way to practice mindfulness is to pay attention to details that usually go unnoticed: for instance, noticing how it feels when air passes through your nose when you breathe; feeling warmth from sunlight shining on your skin; realizing that sounds are caused by vibrations from objects rather than having to make sense of them first (for example, hearing birds chirping). This exercise helps practice focusing on what's happening currently instead of being distracted by thoughts about past experiences or future concerns


Practicing deep breathing to help reduce stress.

Breathing exercises can help you relax, and decrease the stress that you feel. This will give you a chance to calm down when you are feeling anxious, and stay focused on the present moment. It can also help you to feel more in control of your emotions.

If done properly, deep breathing can have an immediate calming effect on your body. It lowers blood pressure and heart rate while increasing oxygen levels in the blood and brain, helping reduce negative thoughts by making it easier for one to focus on their breathing rather than their anxiety symptoms (Benson).

When people are under stress or anxiety they tend to breathe more shallowly than usual because they are so focused on whatever is causing them discomfort; however this type of breath is not enough for us physically as well as emotionally because it does not provide enough oxygen for our bodies or brains which can contribute towards feelings like dizziness or lightheadedness (Benson).


Practicing positive affirmations.

  • Affirmations are positive statements that help you reframe negative thoughts. They can be done anywhere, at any time, and they can be written down or repeated out loud with your eyes closed (or even in front of a mirror).

  • Make sure your affirmations are specific to the situation at hand. For example, if you're having an anxiety-related problem at work, then something generic like "I am confident" would not be very effective; rather, you should focus on something more relevant to your life such as "I am ready for this meeting because I prepared well."

Adopting healthier habits to improve mood.

Adopting healthier habits to improve mood and energy levels.

Healthy eating, drinking water, regular exercise and sleep are important in managing anxiety. However, it is also important to address the underlying causes of these behaviors in order to make lasting changes. If you have social phobia or avoidant personality disorder (ASPD), you may have developed unhealthy patterns related to food, beverages and sleep that can contribute greatly to the severity of your symptoms.


Exercising regularly and eating healthy.

  • Exercise regularly

Exercise can help reduce anxiety. In fact, a study published by the American Psychological Association found that exercise is just as effective as medication at reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety.

  • Eat healthy foods

Eating healthy foods that contain omega-3s can also help to reduce anxiety. Foods high in omega-3s include salmon, tuna, sardines and mackerel. You can also get your daily dose of omega-3 by consuming flax seed oil or chia seeds in smoothies!


Getting enough sleep.

Sleeping is an essential part of our health, and getting enough sleep can help you to manage your social anxiety.

How much sleep is enough? According to the National Sleep Foundation, adults aged 26-64 should sleep 7-9 hours every night. If you’re having difficulty sleeping or finding that you feel tired during the day due to inadequate sleep, consider speaking with a doctor about potentially increasing or decreasing your dosage of medication for mental health disorders like depression or anxiety. You may also want to change your daily routine in order to get more restful sleep—for example, avoiding caffeine in the afternoon/evening hours before going to bed so that it doesn't disrupt your circadian rhythm later on in the evening (this can also help with other symptoms such as excessive worrying). Finally, there are many natural remedies available that could improve both quality and quantity of rest including herbal supplements such as valerian root or melatonin gummies which work by regulating neurotransmitters responsible for promoting relaxation while reducing levels of fear response hormones like cortisol.[1]


Limiting alcohol consumption and drug use.

Avoiding alcohol and drugs is an important part of any strategy to overcome social anxiety. Alcohol and drugs can be harmful to your mental health, even when you’re not experiencing social anxiety.

Alcohol and drug use can make people feel anxious or depressed, which makes them more likely to engage in risky behaviors that may exacerbate their symptoms of depression or anxiety. They might also find themselves making decisions they regret while under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

If you have social anxiety symptoms, it’s best to avoid alcohol as much as possible because it can lead to more severe symptoms if you become dependent on it. Those who struggle with both social anxiety and substance abuse should seek treatment for both conditions at once so they don't worsen one another's effects on your life


Being assertive and confident in social situations.

Social anxiety is a common phobia that affects millions of people. It can make you feel nervous, shy, and awkward around other people. The good news is that social anxiety can be treated with therapy, medication or natural remedies like CBD oil.

To overcome your social anxiety you must first start by being assertive in social situations. Being assertive means being confident in yourself so that you feel comfortable speaking up when others are talking to you. If someone asks a question or makes a comment then it's up to them how they respond but if someone tries taking advantage of your kindness then this is when being assertive comes into play: You say no politely without hurting their feelings but firmly so they understand what's going on here! This will help build confidence which in turn should make these same situations less stressful now because now there's no fear anymore because now there's nothing left to worry about (at least this way).


Being patient with yourself.

Remember that getting rid of social anxiety is a gradual process, not something that happens overnight. You need to be kind to yourself when you make mistakes or take longer than you'd like to progress. Making progress at your own pace is still progress!

  • Patience is important. Don't rush things, and don't be hard on yourself if you're not making progress as quickly as you'd like. Most people with social anxiety take years to overcome it, so don't expect yourself to change overnight.

  • Don't compare yourself to other people who have overcome their social anxiety either. Everyone has a different experience overcoming it, and we all go through our own phases of development in terms of what we're able to do socially and how comfortable we feel around others. The only thing that matters is your own progress—not someone else's!

  • Avoid focusing on what might go wrong during an interaction—this will only make you more anxious than necessary! It can help if you think about what could happen if something went well instead: would you laugh at yourself? Would someone compliment you? These positive thoughts can help ease some fear before an interaction starts up again (and even better yet, they'll make the actual event seem less scary once it does).

Social anxiety has many causes and forms, but it's possible to reduce it by being gentle with yourself, focusing on your needs, and working through your triggers in a safe environment

You may be surprised to learn that social anxiety is a real problem, and not just something people say when they don't want to go on a date. Social anxiety can take many forms—from extreme shyness, which makes it difficult for you to even talk in public, to blushing easily or feeling nervous around other people. It's important not only to recognize the symptoms of social anxiety but also understand where it comes from and what can be done about it.

The first step toward reducing your social anxiety is being gentle with yourself as you work through your triggers in a safe environment. There are many factors that contribute to this condition: genetics, life experiences, stress levels (think about how much harder it feels during finals). Whatever the cause(s), know that there are many ways out of this trap—and if one strategy doesn't work well enough for your needs then try another one until you find what works best for YOU!


Conclusion

If you're dealing with social anxiety, don't forget that you're not alone. Many people experience this at some point in their lives, even if they don't realize it. If your symptoms are severe enough that they're affecting your life and making it difficult for you to go about daily activities like work or school, then consider seeking professional help from a therapist who specializes in treating anxiety disorders. This person can help guide you through the process of getting better by helping identify triggers and offering strategies for coping with them effectively.

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